Haven established what sex is and is not from our previous teachings, we will move further to demystify how it should work using a ceiling fan and an electric bulb as our guide.
The fan as we all know is the last thing that stops working when power is seized. But the bulb, if not the first thing, then it’s the first thing.
Just like the woman, the fan starts slowly before it begins to give you the result you asked for.
Men are the bulbs. The bulb goes in and off at a switch and that is why little things can either make or destroy an erection.
My teaching this morning:
Make it a deliberate effort to satisfy your spouse. Kissing, touching, cuddling and the rest are as important as the salt, pepper and other spices you add to your food go give it taste.
Men, understand that a woman unlike you does not reach orgasm early. Prepare her mind, caress her, fondle her breasts, and if it is money that turns her own, give her money then collect it after she must have reached orgasm.
Women, also understand that men cum easily and as such, may leave you hanging. Rather than complain, take it to your god in prayer.
But seriously, what is sex if the person you have it with do not enjoy it?
What is sex when she no cum but belle come?
What is sex if he cum but e no sweet am?
Lick your partner’s ears.
Kiss their novels.
Whisper ‘sweet nothings’ in their ears.
Pour ice cream on your partner and lick it.
Do missionary style. Do window style.
Just enjoy sex and ensure your partner does too.
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